If you saw your ex girlfriend with someone else, I know that it can make your stomach turn. Especially if you’re trying to win her back. Does this mean you completely blew your chances with her and she’s moved on?
Well, not necessarily. You see, rebound relationships are rarely successful.
Why is this? Well, you see your ex girlfriend hasn’t really had the time she needs to get over the break up herself. In other words, there are a lot of emotions that she still hasn’t processed. SheÕs just burying them under a new relationship.
It’s only a matter time before those emotions need to be dealt with. And when that day comes, that will put an extremely large amount of stress on her new relationship.
So, don’t worry too much about seeing your ex girlfriend with someone else. In fact, it is probably normal. I don’t really know what it is, but a lot of women seem to feel like they need to jump from one relationship to another without taking time off in between.
What you don’t want to do is act confrontational or threatening to this new guy. Remember, he isn’t your enemy. When you see your ex girlfriend with someone else, it is important that you keep your cool and show your support for the new relationship.
Anything else will come off as petty and will only do damage to your goal of winning her back.
So if that’s what you don’t want to do when you see your ex girlfriend with someone else, what should you do?
Just sit back and be that cool guy who is supportive of their relationship. In the meantime, focus your mind on something else. Maybe it is working out at the gym and perfecting your dead lift or bench press, or pretty much anything that will take your life in a new direction.
This is important because it will help you focus on other things besides your ex girlfriend, but it will also help you boost your own sense of confidence in yourself. This is important because it will just make you seem like an even better guy when your ex girlfriend sees you.
Combine your new confidence with her unresolved issues from the break up, and it is no surprise that her new relationship is likely heading down the path to ruin. Chances are good she may even see all the positive changes in you and second-guess her decision to leave you.
Remember, to take things slowly though, and not to rush back into a relationship with her. Enjoy the flirting and the back-and-forth dance of dating.
So don’t break a sweat if you see your ex girlfriend with someone else. It doesn’t mean that you’ve lost her for good. Just play it cool and let her rebound relationship suffer through the difficulties of all her unresolved issues on it’s own. Spend your time being the best guy you can be and don’t be surprised if she wants to start seeing you again.